Some folks hold onto resentment and it lies right under the surface, just waiting to erupt at a moment's notice. They carry around grudges forever, and never let go.
That can't be healthy, and I truly can't imagine living in their heads.
I absolutely hate to argue. I avoid conflict as much as possible. Life's too short to put yourself in a situation where you know things are going to erupt into an argument. No, thank you - I'll pass.
I think I am, in general, a very positive person. I guess the glass is half full for me. I have had so much stress and pain in my life, yet I always came through each challenge stronger than the last.
Life can really kick you in the teeth at times, and your choices are to either lie down and let it....or to get up and move on. I always chose to move on.
Get up, get out, get away from the situation - DO something! Make a change, for the better! Don't wait for someone to save you - save yourself!
I am not a 'woe is me' mentality. I am not one to talk something to death...but rather, I retreat into myself, figure out what I need to do, and DO IT. I don't need permission, and I don't need anyone to justify my actions. It's my life, and I will live it my way.
I guess I've always been a strong person - and they say He never gives you more than you can handle.
There were times I wished He didn't trust me to handle so much at one time!
But I always got through. And you can, too.
Believe in yourself - you are stronger than you know.